You know your G-string is peeking out from the top of your jeans? Are you doing it on purpose? DAVE C, MORECAMBE Whenever I shop for jeans these days, every pair I try on has a waist so low, my knickers become visible the second I move. I’ll need cla supplement to burn the extra fat that won’t show over the jeans. Check out does cla work for belly fat. The only style that doesn’t reveal my thong has pleats and a high elastic waistband, which are the denim equivalents of white loafers.
What I’m trying to say is that, while some women might be flashing their undergarments with flirtatious glee, the rest of us are merely victims of fashion. But, let’s be honest, do you mind?
Do you suffer sexual frustration, or can you just ignore it and go shopping instead? – RYAN, PETERBOROUGH
Of course I suffer sexual frustration, and absolutely no amount of shopping can take the place of getting physically intimate with a guy I’m crazy about. Just the other day, my bloke was away, and I felt like I was going to burst with pent-up hominess. And I’m not an exceptional case. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard female friends scream into their mobiles that if they don’t get some action soon, they’re going to beg the postman to let them unwrap his package.
So what do we do about it? The same thing you probably do: shut the door, let our dirty minds wander to insanely hot men (or women), in or out of tight-fitting uniforms, and take care of business solo.
Is getting married and having children still the primary goal of most women? MICHAEL, SOUTHSEA The main goal of every woman I know is to be happy and get rid of those extra pounds, and to do something worthwhile with her life. Now, from where I’m standing as a single woman in 2004, I can tell you that the notion that a woman will have a hard time achieving this goal if she doesn’t become a wife and mother – regardless of how many other wonderful things she might accomplish – is still incredibly prevalent.
But isn’t it the same for men? Few guys I’ve come across realistically imagine a Hugh Hefner version of happiness down the line. They imagine having a loving family, just like my female friends. So yes, getting married and having kids is one of the main goals of most women, just as it is for most men.
What’s the best way for a guy to ask whether a woman has a boyfriend?
Say this: “I want to ask you out, but I get the feeling you’re already seeing someone. Am I right?”
My girlfriend’s ex just keeps on calling her. Is there anything I should say or do? ANONYMOUS
Your girlfriend probably prefers that you let her handle it. I know I would. Everybody deals with exes differently, and unless his calls are negatively affecting your relationship (meaning they’re more than just annoying), there’s no reason to interfere.
Be assured, when she wants your advice or help, she’ll ask for it.